Singing at Sixty: Finding Joy, Purpose, and Family Through Music

If you had told me years ago that I’d be singing in a band at 60, I probably would have laughed and said, “That ship has sailed.” But here I am—heart wide open, mic in hand, belting out tunes with a group of talented, kind-hearted people who have become so much more than bandmates. They’re my second family. And this chapter of life? It just might be the sweetest one yet.

Music has always been a part of me. From church choirs to school plays, jazz band to marching band, there was never a time in my life when I wasn’t creating sound with others. I’ve always found joy in blending voices and instruments, in the magic that happens when rhythm and harmony align. But there’s something different about doing it now—at this age, with this group, with the kind of perspective that only time and life experience can bring.

Performing with NCX isn’t just about hitting the right notes (though we sure do our best!). It’s about showing up for each other, celebrating the highs, laughing through the flubs, and letting go of the behind-the-scenes chaos as soon as the lights come on. When the music starts, we’re all in. We rock hard, we fine-tune the harmonies until they lock in just right, and we let the energy flow between us and the crowd. And in those moments—we are alive in the purest sense.

There’s a kind of freedom in performing now that I didn’t always feel when I was younger. Maybe it’s confidence, maybe it’s gratitude, maybe it’s just wisdom. But I don’t worry so much anymore about being perfect. I care more about connection—about how the music makes people feel, and how it makes me feel. And honestly? It feels incredible.

To my bandmates: thank you for lifting me up and making me feel like I belong. Your talent, your spirit, your dedication—it’s inspiring. And to our families who cheer us on and help us chase this dream together, thank you for sharing your love and energy with us. You are part of this rhythm, too.

And to those who come out to listen, dance, and sing along: thank you from the bottom of my heart. You give this passion a purpose.

So here’s to making music—at 60, at any age—with joy, with heart, and with people I admire and adore. This is more than a band. This is a beautiful, unexpected gift. And I’m so deeply grateful to be living it.